We Got Married While Apart — Here's How It Worked

We Got Married While Apart — Here's How It Worked

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Getting married was always part of our plan — we just didn’t expect to do it from separate countries.

When you’re in a long-distance relationship, especially with immigration challenges, everything gets more complicated. Paperwork, travel restrictions, planning — even picking a date can feel overwhelming.

We wanted to start our life together. But a traditional wedding just kept falling through.

Then we found out we could have a legal virtual wedding.

At first, we thought it was too good to be true. But after researching, we learned that states like Utah offer fully virtual marriages — with a licensed officiant and official paperwork — and they’re even accepted in other countries.

We decided to go for it.

Here’s how it worked for us:

• We submitted our documents and filled out a quick form.
• We booked our wedding time with an officiant who was licensed for online ceremonies.
• We invited our closest friends and family to join via Zoom.
• And when the day came, we logged on, said our vows, and just like that — we were married.

I said “I do” from my apartment. My fiancé said it from their military base.

It was emotional. It was easy. And it was ours.

The officiant walked us through the process. The ceremony was short but meaningful. And we received our certified marriage certificate right after — no courthouse, no plane tickets, no headaches.

Since then, we’ve used our online marriage to handle joint bank accounts, and every agency has recognized it — no issues at all.

If you’re dealing with distance, don’t wait. Online marriage is recognized, and it’s a meaningful way to start your future remote wedding — even if you’re not in the same place.

We’re proof that weddings don’t need venues — and that what matters most is the person on the other end of the call.

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